I am embracing mesh clothings totally. The trick is moving the width slider to not make my avatar too skinny-looking. There is nothing I can do about the thinness of her arms because the width slider doesn't seemed to affect the arms. Also, it helps to make the avatar shorter otherwise she would be too gangly and.... a small gust of wind can blow her off! Moon wears a size S or Xs and she doesn't look emaciated, I don't think so. The red gown(Apple May) and the red slip dress(Baiastice) is from the Fair event going on right now and, the ethnic-print dress(22769) is from the Around the World event.